All consensual sexual activity is a healthy and pleasurable part of the human experience and people have the right to choose and express their preferences and proclivities.

Being open to being mistaken often and making an effort to learn. Tolerating not knowing and understanding experiences that are unfamiliar to me. In solidarity with every person's right to live a dignified life and understanding how systems can become hostile and depriving.

Hopefully, being able to speak about the event rather than experience it viscerally time and again. Softening the overwhelming experience of oppressive feelings like guilt and shame. Feeling able to recognise and responsibly exercise one's power in relationships.

An individual session with me lasts 50 minutes and within that structure there is the freedom for the person to express themselves and think about whatever it is that's preoccupying them. Sometimes, it involves a fair bit of talking.